DEALING WITH REJECTION / ASKING SOMEONE TO DANCE

Advantage of the PortStar method # 8
DEALING WITH REJECTION / ASKING SOMEONE TO DANCE

By using the tools of the PortStar method, not only will you overcome the fears and apprehensions that keep most people off the dance floor, or that fear of being rejected that might keep you from asking someone to dance.

Whether you are 15 or 99 1/2 years old, dealing with rejection after you ask someone to dance feels the same. First off, it might have taking you all night to ask that special someone that you want to meet and to get the courage to ask them for a dance, and when you do ask you got turned down “FLAT” and now that walk back to your spot is the longest walk you have ever known.

First off let me say “Relax” it happens, But most of the time it has nothing to do with you. There are a lot of reasons someone might say no to your invitation. For example they might be shy themselves or they may not be comfortable with their own dancing abilities and are afraid to put themselves out on the dance floor. Or it might be something as simple as, they might be having a bad hair day and just don’t want to be bothered, or a list of many, many other reasons.

As I said before, most of the time it as nothing to do with you.

This subject is covered more completely in Disc 1 of my DVD “How To Dance With Two Left Feet”